Venting Session
Okay, as the title of this post may indicate, I'm a little annoyed at the moment and feel the need to vent. I do realize that everyone has their own issues and things that are going on in their lives that may or may not require venting. However, this is my blog, therefor my vent. Hope you enjoy my ramblings.
Okay, so I'm now completely fed up with my girlfriends sister and her fiancee. I've reached the point where if they call, and I see the name on the caller id and I know it's them, I don't even want to answer the phone because I know they are going to ask me and the girlfriend to drop whatever it is that we are doing, regardless of how important it may be to us, and come running.
I mean, I don't mind helping someone, if they first make the effort to help themselves. That's not what is happening here. We are the free baby sitting service and if we are unable to due to work schedules or have something else to do, we're suddenly jerks and mean, and so on and so forth. It's like the world suddenly has begun to revolve around this woman and no one else matters.
What makes matters worse, is the g/f never says anything. She just caves and goes running. Putting herself second. She sacrafices sleep, money, and her time for her sister. I mean, sure it's great she cares enough to do so, but the sister has come to expect nothing less of her. So now, my g/f is to put her entire life on hold. She seems to expect my g/f to be late for work, sacrafice what little time with me she has, her money, her gas, use of her car and so on and so on at a moments notice, all because she is having troubles coping with taking care of her new born child. Now, in my mind the father of this child should be right there doing all the things my girlfriend is doing. What is he doing you ask? Playing video games, running around with his buddies, pretty much everything but taking care of his child. This naturally pisses me off to no end.
So, I've reached a point where I no longer want to put up with this, but because she is not my sister, and I've only been with my g/f a little more than 5 months, I'm not sure if it's really my place to say anything. So, I'm more or less damned if I do, damned if I don't. With risk of sounding cliche, sucks :(
Okay, so I'm now completely fed up with my girlfriends sister and her fiancee. I've reached the point where if they call, and I see the name on the caller id and I know it's them, I don't even want to answer the phone because I know they are going to ask me and the girlfriend to drop whatever it is that we are doing, regardless of how important it may be to us, and come running.
I mean, I don't mind helping someone, if they first make the effort to help themselves. That's not what is happening here. We are the free baby sitting service and if we are unable to due to work schedules or have something else to do, we're suddenly jerks and mean, and so on and so forth. It's like the world suddenly has begun to revolve around this woman and no one else matters.
What makes matters worse, is the g/f never says anything. She just caves and goes running. Putting herself second. She sacrafices sleep, money, and her time for her sister. I mean, sure it's great she cares enough to do so, but the sister has come to expect nothing less of her. So now, my g/f is to put her entire life on hold. She seems to expect my g/f to be late for work, sacrafice what little time with me she has, her money, her gas, use of her car and so on and so on at a moments notice, all because she is having troubles coping with taking care of her new born child. Now, in my mind the father of this child should be right there doing all the things my girlfriend is doing. What is he doing you ask? Playing video games, running around with his buddies, pretty much everything but taking care of his child. This naturally pisses me off to no end.
So, I've reached a point where I no longer want to put up with this, but because she is not my sister, and I've only been with my g/f a little more than 5 months, I'm not sure if it's really my place to say anything. So, I'm more or less damned if I do, damned if I don't. With risk of sounding cliche, sucks :(
posted by spankosaur @ Sunday, September 17, 2006
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