Relationships Are Work? Who Knew?

Well, after a series of events, the g/f and I had to have a sit down and chat about some things to avoid future problems. Now, if you read this blog to any amount, I'm sure you've heard me mention my g/f's sister. Well, that's where I'm heading. For the ump-teenth time, my g/f and I have been roped into babysitting and having to cancel our plans. Needless to say I've gotten overly frustrated with this constant bull-plop. So today the g/f and I sat down and discussed this.

What seems to happen is the sister goes directly to my g/f when I'm not around and pressures her into doing whatever it is she wants my g/f to do, then after my g/f gives in and agrees, I find out. This happens A LOT and I've reached a point where I'm constantly having to avoid making plans because they are just going to get cancelled anyway, and I'm getting pissed off for not being able to make plans. So my g/f and I sat down and had a chat. We both agreed that this has been getting out of hand and that we're both frustrated, and what we decided to do is that before either of us agrees to do anything for anyone, to talk to each other first before agreeing to anything. I'm hoping this will help :)

Anyway, other than that, life is life. :)